You shouldn’t just assume that your high stress will sort itself out or get better with time; there are things you can do to find better balance. When you’re figuring out how to manage school stress, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer or approach. What works well for one person might not make a big difference for you.
That’s why it’s so helpful to have a variety of stress management techniques to pull from. You’re sure to find one (or a few) that help you feel a little more in control.
1. Build (and stick with) a consistent routine
When everything else feels chaotic, structure helps. A predictable daily routine — like consistent wake times, dedicated study blocks, and calming wind-down rituals before bed — gives your brain a sense of order and control. This doesn’t need to be overly rigid. Even a loose framework can give you some much-needed stability.
2. Break down your big tasks
That 20-page research paper probably feels overwhelming. But a single paragraph? Not so much. When your schoolwork feels like too much, stop staring down the whole project and try focusing on the smallest possible next step instead. This makes it easier to get started, and your momentum will likely build from there.
3. Make time for movement
It’s tempting to stay stuck at your desk when you feel swamped, but exercise is one of the most well-researched stress relievers out there. Physical activity regulates your stress hormones and offers a mood boost that often lasts well beyond the workout itself. You don’t need to commit to hours in the gym. Something as simple as a 20-minute walk or a bike ride across campus can make a difference, too.
4. Try mindfulness exercises
If you’re feeling particularly stressed, your nervous system needs a reset. Take a moment to breathe. Simple mindfulness techniques like deep breathing, naming thoughts (“I’m noticing I’m feeling anxious”), or mindful observation (focusing on a single object and noticing details), can disrupt the anxiety spiral and bring you back to the present moment. Relaxation and medication can help, too.
5. Prioritize (and protect) your sleep
Sleep and stress have a complicated relationship — stress makes it harder to sleep, but poor sleep makes stress worse. Aim to get seven to nine hours of sleep each night, keep a consistent schedule (yes, even on weekends), and focus on creating a healthy sleep environment. That means putting your phone out of reach, avoiding screens at least 30 minutes before bed, and using earplugs or a sound machine if noise is an issue. Even seemingly small changes can make a big difference.
6. Learn to say no
This is one of those things that’s easier said than done, but it’s arguably one of the most important coping skills on the list. If you’ve been piling on the AP classes, extracurriculars, volunteer opportunities, and part-time jobs, stress and burnout are almost inevitable. It’s okay to not do it all. Downsizing your stressful commitments isn’t giving up. It’s a smart (and oftentimes necessary) way to keep yourself and your workload in check.
7. Take real breaks
Scrolling through your phone during a study break doesn’t actually give your brain a rest. Taking a true break — like a short walk, a snack away from your desk, or time outside — is far more restorative than passive screen time.
8. Talk to someone you trust
Getting your stress out of your head can make it feel more manageable. Whether it’s with a friend, parent, mentor, or counselor, talking through what you’re experiencing can provide perspective, emotional relief, and sometimes even practical help. You don’t have to have everything figured out. Sometimes talking about it can provide comfort and help you figure out your next steps.
9. Make time for things you enjoy
All of the non-academic activities you care about (things like hobbies, creative outlets, or social outings) aren’t a waste of time. They balance out the demands of your student life. Even small pockets of joy throughout your week can go a long way in keeping stress from taking over.
10. Try journaling
Research shows that writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you prioritize your worries, identify what’s actually triggering your stress, and work through negative thought patterns. That’s a lot more productive than letting your mind spin. You aren’t turning your journal into a teacher or professor, so allow yourself to freely write without any pressure or expectations.