Everyone feels anxious sometimes — that’s normal, and not necessarily something you need to jump on fixing. The harder question to answer is whether your normal stress response has shifted into something that could benefit from some professional support. Here are a few questions to help you spot the difference.
Does anxiety interfere with your daily life?
Occasional anxiety might be annoying, but it doesn’t get in the way of much. If your anxiety is starting to affect your work, relationships, or ability to get through an average day, it’s worth consulting a mental health professional.
How severe and persistent are your symptoms?
Anxiety that comes and goes with a stressful moment is pretty normal. But if your symptoms are constant, severe, exhausting, or generally feel like more than you can deal with on your own, that’s a sign your anxiety might have moved beyond everyday stress.
Is your anxiety out of proportion to the situation?
It’s completely normal to feel anxious about something that’s generally stressful, like a job interview or a medical test. It’s a different story when your anxiety is significantly bigger than what the situation calls for. When you recognize that your reactions are exaggerated but you still can’t get them under control, you could be dealing with an anxiety disorder.
How often are you experiencing anxiety attacks?
You might have heard the term “anxiety attack” to describe a sudden wave of intense fear. It’s not an official clinical term — clinicians use the term “panic attack” to describe a brief and intense episode of fear that peaks within minutes, often with physical symptoms like a racing heart, shortness of breath, or dizziness.
So, what does an anxiety attack feel like? It comes on fast and usually feels overwhelming, like your body is reacting to an imminent threat you can’t identify. These symptoms can also look different depending on your sex. Research on anxiety attack symptoms female patients experience shows women tend to report more severe and more frequent physical symptoms than men do.
An occasional panic attack, especially during a stressful stretch, isn’t automatically a cause for concern. But frequent ones that seem to come totally out of the blue could point to panic disorder.